On jobs and careers, passions, needs and happiness: The story continues

Do a job you love and you will never work a day in your life.

This oft-quoted saying has been attributed to many great people, including Confucius. It is a fine saying, but it might make it sound like having a career is easy. From my own experience, and from that of people I know to have careers, this is far from the truth.

Jobs can be hard: you might have to work hard, for long hours, or your job might involve heavy labour. Some jobs are physically demanding, others mentally and intellectually so. Sometimes, jobs are hard because of difficult bosses or competitive, destructive work colleagues. Sometimes they are hard because they are repetitive or boring, or worse, because you feel undervalued or bullied.

Careers are hard for different reasons. When we practice a career, we are effectively backing ourselves. If we succeed or fail, we are responsible. When jobs go wrong, we can easily find a scapegoat (this doesn’t actually result in making us feel better about ourselves, though). We can move from job to job, always finding a person, a system, or something else to blame. When we have a career (which is self-driven), we can’t really blame anyone but ourselves - the buck stops with us.

However, the good news is we can’t really go wrong with a career, because a career is for life, it may permutate and change as we evolve, but it can’t go wrong, as long as it is allied with our true purpose. There might be failures. The actual performance of a career involves challenges and risks that you can avoid by simply having a job.

It is rare, but some people are fortunate enough to have a job that is perfectly aligned with where their career is at that point. This has happened to me twice in my life. (You can tell if this happens as both the rewards and the challenges are intensified). I lost both of these jobs during restructures. Fortunately, while this impacted significantly on my position and temporary earning ability, my career was intact and I was already looking forward to the next phase in my life.

A career is a choice we make. It might start with a vocation, a calling, a passion or it might be something more mundane – a need to do something small, that becomes bigger as we do it. Often, people fall into a job and then realise it gets into their soul, their psyche – they want to have an impact, not simply ‘do’ it. (This is what happened to me, but it took a long time for me to realise it).

A career in action involves bringing something into existence, making it better, or overcoming something you perceive as negative or wrong. It is always values-driven. This can be in any area of life, even if you clean toilets for a living. I had a client a while back who did just that; she reported a hygiene problem to the centre management. She didn’t leave it there; she also had a well-thought out and inexpensive solution. She was told a week later that her services were no longer required. We worked together for a long time; this woman went on to become a consultant, working with local government to make public toilets safer. It was a hard road, with lots of submission writing (she required assistance with this as she was not educated in Australia and had difficulties with the language), TAFE studies, and creative ways of getting to talk to the right people. Does she regret any of this? Not for a minute. She is now highly sought-after for input into a range of safety concerns.

So, if you feel that a career is something only other people can have, that you don’t have the space or time for it, think again – carefully.

Don’t just take my word for it. There are loads of passionate careerists out there, in a wide range of situations.

Last week I hijacked some words written by Daniel Reeves, a musician. I didn't ask him to write them, – I didn’t even know Daniel until very recently –  they fell onto my facebook page like a gift; a truly honest and heartfelt message about having a career, though he doesn't even use that term. I'm hijacking some more words from that post this week:

My dream is like many songwriters’ dreams would be, to spark inside someone the experience that music gave me this morning. To have someone stop for just a moment, to have a look at the big picture, to who they really are, where they really are and to be thankful for who they are. 

So I think it’s important to always do what you love, love what you do and most importantly, believe in yourself. We are a product of our experiences so just remember that when you’re at an age where you can’t do much and the majority of your life is spent inside, you will have lots of time for thinking. So you may as well pack as many good memories in there as you can.

If you are unsure about your own career, don’t worry, you are already having it. You might not be actioning it fully yet, it might need some work, but it is there, waiting to be tapped. Stop, sit still and listen to your inner voice – it won’t steer you wrong.